Remember the rule about not believing everything she says? This is the time to apply it. I'll share a secret with you about W's who are thinking about leaving her M. Sometimes she will say discouraging things, so that the H won't get hopeful that she has changed her mind. I realize it doesn't sound logically, but that is the frame of mind she is in currently.
you are exactly right on this. She is like almost reminding herself that she is leaving me. She would bring it up very briefly when the context applies. But I guess it is logical that she doesn't want to give me hope since she is thinking about leaving.
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If you never listen to another word I say, please hear me now. Do not have another child, thinking it will save your M. It is hard enough, when the M is happy. Bringing a child into a M that is unhappy, will not fix the problem. I don't get a good feeling when a woman starts talking about wanting a divorce one day and having a baby the next. My advice is not to show reaction at this time.
She is not suggesting to have a baby herself. She is suggesting me to find another wife so that I can have another child.... wired, right?
H: 31 W:31 M: 6 T: 10 S: 4 BD: 12/2017 In house separation: 12/2017
