I find myself totally agreeing with Juju here. Why would you even want him to come back? I guess I'm contradicting myself here, but I was kind of assuming from your posts that Don's explanation was what he meant, but now that you have explained that wasn't what he was getting at, I say good riddance to bad rubbish. I think it was kml who said you need to flip the script (paraphrasing, of course) and stop thinking about what he's missing out on and realize that HE is not good enough for YOU. You deserve better....WAY better.

I really don't understand people. And, I'm sorry you are having this experience on top of everything else going on. Hang in there, lady. Oh and I agree with J9, too.....you are SO not alone in being tired of games and all the other stuff and just wanting to find something real and true. You'll get there.


Me 52, H53
Bomb drop 9/29/2014
Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014
Marriage #2 12/31/2019
5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships)
6 grandkids