Hi, pinn! Welcome to this part of the world. As usual, I'm late to the party, but just wanted to comment on what you said about having no interest in dating. I've been divorced for coming up on 4 years now and for the first year after, I had NO desire to date. Even after that year, I kind of wanted to but not enough that I actually put myself out there to do so. It has taken awhile. Even now, I'm not all that interested in dating a bunch of different folks. If someone asked me out a few months ago, I would've likely said yes, if I liked them ok, but wasn't actively seeking anything, so I get what you are saying. You are definitely not alone.

Sorry about all that your dad is going through. That must be really rough for you. Hang in there!


Me 52, H53
Bomb drop 9/29/2014
Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014
Marriage #2 12/31/2019
5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships)
6 grandkids