I struggle to with this but it does seem like detaching, even no contact, Gal etc are the only things that will give your W he space to realise what she stands to lose.
I’m so freaked out right now because my w’s Actions of late can only lead me to have to try accept she is serious - she moved out on Saturday and took a whole load of stuff with her and the D has been filed.
This is so tough, I honestly think it’s harder than when I lost my first wife- this time I get anguish, hurt as well as the grief.
Hang in there UK


Me:48 W:43, Kids:S19, S17, S10, S8
M:10 years
BD:06-18-2018