Things have been calmer for a day or so. But this is mostly because we hardly saw each other it spoke. The communications are starting to break down. I was referring back to earlier days after BD but before DB. She seemed warmer and more engaged then. Laughing at my jokes and messages, checking I was ok etc. Things have definitely slid backwards in that regard. Are there any circumstances where instigating conversations and trying to get her to warm up are acceptable even though this goes against all DB principles?
