I’m not religious but I also do not believe in divorce. I am a man of integrity and a wholesome family man. I took a vow and I intend to stick by it. I refuse to be party to the destruction of our family unit. I build and I fix. W said yesterday that I should divorce her. I will not. Adultery would also be my limit. I always said that. She has denied so far. I think I will reinstate the ring. This way I am being true to myself and my beliefs rather than stopping down to the W level. I will rise above and be the better person.