Thanks guys. Yes, I'd love for Sandi to weigh in.

I don't see any way back from this at all. Honestly I think I'd be able to get over a one night stand or somethign easier. Hell, at least it would have made sense if she was all into a doctor, lawyer, etc. Not some halfwit that speaks at a 4th grade level.

There's nothing to DB anymore. I know it's only been a few weeks, but the things she's said and done, not just to me, but to our friends and family can't be undone. [censored], but life goes on. Now the hard stuff starts.


Married: 15yrs
Ages: Me 49, W 44
Kids: S12
BD: around 4/14