Has it gone too far?

[SteveLW]

uk, she is talking right now. WASs are notorious for talk. Is she doing anything to sell the house? Worry about that when you see action!

My W talked constantly about getting a job and getting her own apartment. My initial snooping found she was even researching apartments. When I gave her an ultimatum about transparency early on she started working on her resume.

Action right? Even action sometimes isn't action. Web searches on the topic and even working on something isn't the same as applying for jobs, and once she had enough cash, applying for an apartment. See the difference.

"I want to buy my own house!" So easy to say. Do you see any action on that? Is she contacting realtors? Is she going on viewings? You said your current house is being renovated, could you even put it on the market right now?

LBS love to worry about things they shouldn't. She won't budge. WHO CARES? It doesn't change what you should be doing.