Yes, but she won’t budge AStander. She wants house sold, end of. So she can ‘have her own house’ so she said yesterday. I kind of suggested she go and get some space and even suggested paying for it but she won’t have it. I know this was a mistake on my part but emotions got the better of me. Damn I was doing so well. Interestingly she also has NOT done a thing about the separation although she told me she had. It was apparent when we were discussing it yesterday as she did not know anything about the process or forms and I did as I had researched it thoroughly. I asked why the separation rather than D - Her reasons ‘I didn’t want to write nasty stuff about you’. Trouble is, in legal sep. you need to still give reasons as in D! This gave game away. She then said she had no feelings for me ‘at the moment’.
I know I cannot control this but my fear is that she will do this irreparable damage to the family and our life and later realise what she has done once the fog has lifted and reality sets in.
