Terapin, it's very common for WAS's to "affair down". It's usually perplexing to the LBS that they do this, but a lot of times it's just a case of them finding someone that tells them what they want to hear (often it's not heartfelt though, there are a lot of people out there that prey on the desperate and know just what emotional buttons to push to make it sound like they care). If it's a deal-killer for you then so be it, but I would point you back to Neffer's post and ask you what the hurry is. No need to take rash action, give yourself a couple of weeks or even a month to digest this new info and if over that time you consistently feel D is the proper action then proceed. Right now you may be doing it as an emotional reaction though.
