Welp, just had a nice conversation with my (our) two closest friends.
Apparently she has been, at the very least, involved in an EA with this idiot with both know. She's been texting him nonstop, begging him to sleep with her, begging him to 'wait' for her, etc. She's been lying to me, and our circle of 6 friends for the last 3 weeks. Her two best friends in that circle want to absolutely kill her. She's dragged everyone down, and ensnared everyone in her web of lies.
To say that I"m in disbelief is an understatement. If she was hooking up with a doctor, lawyer, etc, then i can understand it. This dude is 11 years younger than her, has already been divorced twice, makes $12 an hour, and is literally living on someone's couch (cause his stbx kicked him out). I mean, lol.
She of course still denies everything, thinks all of our friends and relatives are lying to me, etc. Everything she says is completely selfish and is trying to justify her behavior.
Anyway, i went to the courthouse to get paperwork this morning (before I even knew about all of this). It's over.
She destroyed our marriage, our family, and relationships with her closest friends. For what? A chance to bang some loser? FML
Married: 15yrs Ages: Me 49, W 44 Kids: S12 BD: around 4/14
