Your pain is palpable. And totally understandable of course. The selfishness which you see from the WAS in these situations is flabbergasting. You ARE the better person. You have done ALL you can do for your family. Just remember this. You have somehow got to remember who you were before the M. This is what I am trying to do. Go back 12 years and rediscover myself. It is hard. So hard. But you can do it.
