Hey g......IMO band dude knows if he is over his x or not and if he was self aware he would have not got in over his head and did what he did. That’s how people get hurt.....I spent 6 hours chatting with a lady yesterday. She has been divorced for 7 years and when I told her when mine was final her initial response was wow. She wants a R and is not in it for the dating......before I continue to engage with her I have to assess myself and determine if that is what I want and if I don’t I need to stop and not go any further.
