Jay love, you are doing very well to hold it together like you are. Our sitch are so so similar. Unfortunately we are screwed regarding the family home, it does need to be split in half. But there are way of doing this (in the UK) at least such as deferring the sale until the children are older if this is their main residence. This is something I am going to explore with my L if we get to that point, which now seems inevitable.

My advice for what it’s worth is be consistent for the kids and remain calm at all times as hard as it is. I know and I’ve slipped myself.

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