Thanks Cdn. I appreciate you reading my sitch. I had been doing so well, keeping calm, not rising to her antics, but that low blow with telling the kids just totally got me. She is bang out of line. I just don’t know if I can even be with someone like this anymore. I need to be strong for my children and detach so her words and actions do not affect me. That is where I need to get to. W went out last night and has not returned this morning. She is taking kids to her sisters tonight which I am not happy about but I guess I have not choice on that.