Originally Posted by EZdozit
Terapin,
Has your w always had issues with her drinking or is she going through a phase? Maybe she’s trying to relive her college years...



Yes. It was much worse 12-15 years ago, but her drinking would get worse and worse until eventually the bottom would fall out (she's end up in therapy, mental health, etc). It really hasn't been bad in years, but in the past year it's become much worse. Completely drunk on weekends, and drinking a bottle of wine or 6 pack almost every night.

She never recognizes it as a problem until it's too late. Says it's her 'stress relief'

Look, I"m no angel either. But she has a history of depression and a family history of mental illness, so she's the last person that should be raging like that.


Married: 15yrs
Ages: Me 49, W 44
Kids: S12
BD: around 4/14