I think what happened is that you guys moved too fast. At 2 weeks, this type of drama and feelings amd intimacy doesnt make sense.
I think at 2 weeks it should still be coffee and casual miniature golf dates.
I know he is the one that pushed for this, but maybe a lesson? If this happens again, keep yourself detached and keep it light and casual. So that you guys have time to get to know each other and where each of you are at first before investing emotions and feelings.
( i know this doesnt always work...look at my sitch. I was cautious and slow. But still ignored some red flags. But the slowness does keep it less personal/emotional i think)
