Don't make decisions out of anger. It sounds petty and passive aggressive to say the "congrats..." thing. I wouldn't do that. Sleep on things, think things through. I'm not saying you shouldn't file if that's really what you want to do, but don't be an a-hole about it. You can always withdraw the filing anyway. But if you do file, tell her with poise, tact and politesse.
She's obviously got some issues she's trying to work out. Yes, it's not cool that she did that around your son. But it doesn't mean that she is a horrible person.
You are angry, and you have every right to be, but don't let that anger control you. You may feel completely differently by tomorrow morning or Monday. Breathe.
Thanks. You may be right. But I just can't tolerate that anymore. Like i said, yesterday wasn't an isolated incident.
i'm no psychiatrist, but I was always told that alcohol is a depressant, and if you're already depressed, drinking for 12 hours probably isn't wise. And forcing an 8 year old to sit there while you do it is the height of selfishness. On the other hand, at least she was smart enough to not get behind the wheel.
You know, people here talk about 'the fog' WAS's are in. It's hard to believe anyone can't see or doesn't care about the damage they're doing to themselves, their families, etc. Well, one important detail I purposefully left out of my threads pertaining to her. She has a Masters Degree in Family & Marriage Therapy. So for people wondering why their spouses can't see it, my spouse is a very highly respected professional in that very field, and she can't see it. Ugh
Married: 15yrs Ages: Me 49, W 44 Kids: S12 BD: around 4/14
