WW-is there hope? Any advise from former WW's

[LANE777]

thanks Neffer..I know its me still grasping on to anything still!!! ugh

Today my WW came to pick up the D15 and S6 to leave town for a few days. She looks like a totally different person.
She has new hair style, all new clothes. This 38 WW looks 25 now. I get to stand there and pretend like I'm not even interested in any of that. I just said okay guys " have fun and drive safe" and off they went. So it [censored] not being able to load up and go with them. She's looking all good now. Why does life have to throw you down so hard.

So she went to a class a week and 1/2 ago to help fill out paper work for D. I actually expected her to give them to me by now. But hasn't. Not sure whats going on, probably still in the works.

For now I am going to "let it be". Let her go enjoy her new feelings and new life I guess. I keep being told she is living a fantasy and it will eventually come to an end some day. They say she is living on her scattered emotions. Some days its hard for me to believe this. Ive also been told that it will take something big to break her out of the "fog".

I know I am a good person, great father and at one time a decent husband. I know my best chances are to step back and let her have complete freedoms. I thought she already had that when we were together. I never told her no when she wanted to go hang out with friends etc. I just didn't realize she was getting sucked into a whole different way of life that must seem way more exciting than being a W to me right now.
Like Sandi said...and I say the same thing. I would have bet my life she wouldn't have done this. I bet my W would have bet her life she wouldn't have done this either. But now she is sucked in and going down a wayward path. Nothing is right about it at all. I went swimming with 2 of my kids last night where we used to go as a family. Now I look around at other families saying to myself.."yep that was me last year" Now Im just a heartbroken SOB wishing I had it all back.

Say a prayer for me and my family please.