I've walked the path w/you from the very beginning and knew that once you figured out how to deal w/him, you would detach enough to be able to find some humor in your situation. Your h is just out there and doesn't understand that he can't control anything but himself. Going to court is only going to make him look stupid once again and make his lawyer richer by the hour.
You've come such a long way and I'm so proud of you. Yes, once you've reached the other side, the sky tends to clear and you can see all that you need to see.
Keep up the good work!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
