Davide: You're right.

Neffer: Ya, may be good or bad. She may still be on the fence, or may be looking for more validation to proceed with it. Guess it shouldn't matter to me.

She went to my sister in laws to hang out today. From everything I've heard, the sister in law is firmly in the 'save the marriage' corner. So again, not sure why W continues to want to talk to people who are 'against' what she's up to. But I know, it's none of my business anyway! lol


Married: 15yrs
Ages: Me 49, W 44
Kids: S12
BD: around 4/14