Not sure DB is working? AnotherStander help!

[Jlh]

Help! I need wise words and a pat on the back today. I'm partially curious about this and I'm wondering if anyone had a word or two on it as well. Is it hurting the detachment if you just ask out of curiosity to the walkaway spouse what you did to make them hate you so much? I'm just honestly curious how they can just seem to turn of legit feelings while claiming they never loved, love but don't love, etc etc. They think they feel that way yet so many friends and family can see how the spouse really was all those years

I've noticed that since I detached more and properly, H barely looks at or talks to me, he even seems a little annoyed that I'm moving forward with a job and working on me. I had a tummy bug for a few days and he told me to call him if I needed anything but I told him not to worry and our son would be fine so he left in a huff. Granted I don't make much eye contact with him lately because the anger part of it is hitting me now. I feel like it's not fair that I have to be so calm and cool while he can make no sense and just run off to his apartment and hide from the world while I do the child raising and other responsibilities.

It's not fair and I hate it, but I'm being tough and moving forward, plus it feels good to be occupied with work and my hobbies. I guess this is one of the low days of the coaster ride but I hate this.