I wouldnt read into it. Just keep detaching Lane. Ill put it like this, my wife was texting me about my S the other day. There was probably more content in those texts then we have had in a long time. She also texted a few things that she had done that morning on her own. All very friendly convo. Come to find out, she left out the most important details, she also filed for D while she was being so chatty that morning. I shouldnt be surprised, but every move they make is heartless.
All I can say is keep detaching. Be pleasant when you are around/talking with her. Most importanly keep working on yourself and become the best Lane you can be, but do it for you so it sticks no matter the outcome.
Together:20 years M:3 years Me:40 WW:40 S15 A suspected:5/17 AC:5/18 BD:8/18 WW in full blown R w/ OM Still under same roof