You have my blessing to end it. And with my last post being about settling, that should say a lot. This is clearly beyond you having a thin skin. Not only is the behavior destructive, he is demonstrating an insensitivity to you, a lack of flexibility, and an uncompromising attitude where he is the ultimate authority in his mind (I'd bet real money he isn't religious, and my therapist says that people that don't believe in God think they ARE God in a manner of speaking). Beyond all of that, this is supposed to be the honeymoon stage. You seem to have bypassed that for the troubled relationship stage. What will this look like when it's really troubled?!?

Despite our now unanimous feedback I would be surprised if it was easy to end. Others say you are just dating as if it should be easy, but Ginger had a hard time ending it with HC after just a couple of weeks. Relationships are very sticky. And I know you don't look at people as replaceable or relationships as disposable, and really want something long lasting.

I just hope you don't have to go through too much pain before finding the path to ending this. And I hope more that you don't get stuck with this for good.


Me:38 XW:38
T:11 years M:8 years
Kids: S14, D11, D7
BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15