Fogg, thanks so much for the reply and very wise advice. Now this lingerie thing is really bothering me. I was asking myself what about it was annoying me so much. It’s the disrespect. The flagrant disrespect she is throwing my way. Almost laughing in my face. I cannot and will not rise to it and get angry. That’s what she wants me to do. However, as we are no longer sleeping together and we are also still in the middle of home renovations and are down a bedroom, we’ve been taking turns in the bed and on a mattress in the living room. I’ve decided if she is sleeping with someone else then I do not want to be sharing the bed with her. I’ll have the bed, she’s on the mattress from here on in. That is my boundary here. I really want to throw her out but I know I can’t and she won’t go. How I broach this without showing her this ‘affair’ is bothering me or without starting a big angry fight I don’t know. Don’t think I can avoid either. But I’m growing my balls back and I will not stand for this any more.
