Kml, i made a big deal about how my son was to never use that word in fro t of NG. So it was well known. Maybe not aspergergers but a TBI? That keeps popping up into my head cause of the lack of filter.
My friend thought the banter was aggressive and weird considering she didnt know him. I see him engage in this type of banter with his family, and its like they are putting on a show for guests. Its fun for them and they are laughing and trying to one up each other.
But with me, it didnt present as a sign of familiarity and comfort. It was just obnoxious for me. My feelings werent hurt. I dont doubt myself or feel inferior in any way. It was more like. I dont have time nor energy to even respond to something so so stupid. Why is he wasting my time with this ? Why am i having to get defensive with my actions? That requires an energy i dont really want to expend. Im a single mom raising an adhd kid and working 2 jobs. To argue about cups and who is appropriate to ask for ditections from is for people with a lot of time on their hands.
