hmm...Thank you Gerda, you are absolutely right. It never really occurred to me that I didn't need to keep the peace and save everyone from each other. I wonder why, it seems so obvious.
So, yeah...Ws days are her days. If my sister sees her, I'm sure she can handle it. And even if she can't and things get ugly between them, they are adults and that isn't my relationship to mange. I think I just try to take ownership of it because I am the one that brought W in to their lives. Even though that is the case, I am not the one managing the relationship, they are. I needed that perspective today. Sometimes its hard to see the forest for the trees.
