It's okay to lie to protect your son.

But I think you should not have fear about your W or worry about your sister. They are grown women and have to deal with it. The more forgiveness, the better for everyone, especially your kids. I think you should stop trying to control every thing that happens or keep the worlds so separate. Just let everyone deal with both consequences and encounters and don't take on so much responsibility. Your sister is being a little selfish, she can handle the encounter and it will be good for everyone to get over that. I think you need to surrender the times W is with the kids to W and stop trying to keep the worlds so separate. The kids don't want that and you are never going to be able to control things that tightly anyway. Let the kids see all the grown-ups loving unconditionally, hate the sin and not the sinner.


I believe I will see the bounty of the Lord in the land of the living.
Wait for the Lord with courage.
Be stouthearted, and wait for the Lord.