I know what you mean about being a little rusty with the flirting...maybe you will get to practice more on vacation??!
You have lots of good questions.....I have similar ones. It does feel good to be okay without immediate answers. I hate having PATIENCE, but I have to admit, it really does work!
I like how your H is doing the "teacher" thing and that you are letting it happen....H loved to be "smarter" than me about certain things and I never minded as long as he respected my opinion in things that mattered to me!
Soak up some sun for me....and while you're at it, please toast us all with a GIANT margarita!!!!!!!!!!
Happiness is like a butterfly: the more you chase it, the more it will elude you, but if you turn your attention to other things, it will come and sit softly on your shoulder.... (thoreau)