I expect her response to be negative. I am prepared for that. I will not go on living in limbo. When I get her negative response just as I would like a 100% commitment if it is positive, I will be 100% committed to changing the sitch. I will finally let go and ask her to leave. I am not the one one who wants out so I will not move out.

Don't count the days, make the days count.
Mohammad Ali