Patience, DB, Detach... piecing or divorce

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She is struggling in general. Wish I could do something for her but it’s not my role. Trying to focus on detaching and letting her go through her own struggles. It’s outside my control but sharing a child makes it hard. Have to stop believing what she says as if it’s truth.

Any advice on how to respond to temp checks? And to recognize that’s what she’s doing in the moment.

Thanks