I think your bar is set low. He only looks good by comparison to those awful previous men.

If a man called a woman a bitch casually like that (and in front of a child!) that would be it for me. That reflects such disrespect for women. It's as if you were a person of color and he referred to another person of color by the N-word in front of you.

Did you call him out on it? What was his response?

And what did your friends think of his "banter" about the cups?