I also understand that he is verbally doing to me, what i am mentally doing to him. He has a lot of good qualities, and i am ignoring those and focusing on this very annoying aspect of his personality.
I came from a man with a secret addiction and money hording from his own family. A boyfriend prior that was cheating and controlling and a liar and abusive. Last guy i dated was so cheap and selfish
. So how bad is this in comparison?. Or was my bar just set so so low ?
