I am very proud of the way that you handled your landlord's realtor. They should be working with you in respect to times of when people can come into your space that you are renting. Getting uppity w/you is not the way to go.
As for the landlord, I am glad you are on to him and are standing your ground. At least they both know that you are very much aware of what your lease is all about.
Hang in there.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
