Gordie 21 going with my gut

[Gordie]

Roist and DNJ

Thank you

1 agree she needs to feel heard one of her biggest needs and one where I previously failed so totally agree which is why it takes such effort for me to just listen and keep my mouth shut

2 journaling very good idea and part of why I post here but I do not post all the details and more intimate stuff

3 I remain cautious and do believe her actions are sincere but it has been six months of her moving closer to me so feel whatever is going on is genuine and not manipulative

DNJ we are closer in age than you suspect

And point taken on who needs to dig out of what hole