You know, dating different guys has really given me perspective. There are different things that can attract you to different types of people. There really is something to enjoy in everyone. Thank you for the compliment, I really am low maintanence, , or more so, versatile. I can have fun dressing up and going out to fancy dinners. Take me to a hockey game, food or beer festival, an amusement park, apple picking, a hike, bike ride, or the beach, or sit me in your backyard chilling by a fire or on the couch in my sweats watching Netflix.
Given that I like nearly everything, I look for morals, people who I interact well with, who are kind, funny, non-judgemental, who can hold an intelligent debate while being open-minded. Who won't knock down my interests, even if they don't share them. That's what I look for. Someone who enjoys spending time with me.
I could not see a LTR with all of them. I visualized what it might be like, but I couldn't see one with everyone. HC, I couldn't see it unless a lot of things were different. FF, well, I should have looked more clearly at our insurmountable circumstances. I couldn't see anything LT with LD.
I figure I could see a LTR with someone where I wouldn't have to say "well, if things were different, we could have a relationship" I wouldn't have to change the person or the circumstances. I like this one because we legit enjoy eachother. Don't worry, no sex. His kids are home! And I never met them. I go after they go to bed. They sleep like rocks.
IN other news, I did a crossfit class tonight at the new crossfit gym by my house with my BFF and her H that I go to the other gym with. We loved it! We are joining. Maybe I will finally get my fat butt back in shape.
My colleague, the other case manager is an older Jamaican woman. I am walking out of her office today and she says "you have a big rear end!!" Since it is a compliment in Jamaica, I thanked her! But maybe it's time to shrink it just a little.....
