Lastly to clarify. - Copied from State Resource on Abuse.

"So what is child abuse?
Physical Hitting, shaking, kicking, pinching, slapping, throwing, hair pulling, and burning the child with scalding water or other hot objects. Spanking or paddling isn't considered abuse as long as it is reasonable and does not cause any injury to the child.

Sexual Any sexual contact between an adult and a child is sexual abuse. It includes intercourse of any kind, inappropriate touching, exposing children to adult sexuality by showing pornographic images, and performing sex acts in front of the child.

Emotional Name-calling, threats, constant criticism, withholding love, and any other behaviors that damage the child's self-esteem or emotional health.

Neglect Failing to meet the basic needs of a child, including food, clothes, shelter, hygiene, necessary medical and mental care, and education. In many states, leaving a child home alone beyond a specific period of time or in a situation in which he could be or is harmed is considered a form of neglect."

M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4
All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18
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2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD
2 Major breakups.
2 Rebounds