Am I coming or going?

[DonH]

So is this 5 dates in less than 2 weeks????? I know there are "reasons" (there always are) but um, just be mindful of going too fast - because this guy will go off to the races with you - he clearly will. Perhaps he already is? For some reason I think it's close to 5 dates in 10 days??????? That seems a bit much - but again consider the source (me) LOL

Have you met his kids? If you are having "dates" at his house I'm thinking you have? Or have they been at their moms?

You are very low maintenance G and that is a compliment. You tend to easily fit with all sorts of guys - regardless of looks, regardless of what they do, what they offer, what they want, etc. But what do YOU REALLY WANT? If you made a list what would be on it? Or could you even make a list? What I'm saying is don't just accept what you can accept. I just don't want the main criteria to be someone who likes you and wants to see you and stroke your LLs. Those things are certainly important but what you want and need is just as important if not more. What do you want from an R or from this guy? And it should not just be that they want to spend time with you and like you - you need to have more than someone who likes you.

I guess what I'm questioning or wondering is, of the last 5 guys you dated, you saw all sorts of good things in all of them and could see yourself in a LTR with all of them - even though they are all vastly, very, different. That again might be a huge compliment to you that you can do that. I just fear it's also a piece of, well he likes me, so therefore I like him.

Enjoy the date. But I'd still say do not have sex with him yet. Wait until he comes back from band camp. Oy does that sound geeky but then again I've been to band camp many years ago so there you go. LOL