Don. I respectfully disagree. I view it as abuse, as does my family, and several friends and colleagues i asked. So i am not alone in this opinion. As i said. If you had seen his reaction and the look on his face you would think differently.

If it happens again I am calling CPS.

My age has little to nothing to do with my decision.

If I am being honest, you can call me a millenial all you want. I dont see myself that way.
Additionally, i can say that i think your way of thinking is archaic, and you are a pushover.

If you think a stranger that has only know my son for Months, sharing a Bed is ok, then you have some very different views than I do.

I appreciate you taking the time to type such a detailed post, but i dont agree with a single word of it, and will be pursuing the course of action i feel is best for my son.

She isnt my family. she made that decision. Not my problem.

"if you chose to fight her like this you are going to make a really, really difficult life for her"
Again, not my problem. She has to live with the consequences of her choices to abuse her child.

Lastly, your continued reference and insult to my age proves that you are viewing my situation through your outdated, midwestern archaic method of thought.
My age is not a factor, and you seem to be very hung up on that, therefore i really cannot put too much credit in anything you have said here, as you have, on 2 separate occasions now, shown your blatant bias in this regard.

Again, i respectfuly disagree and will continue with what i feel is in the best interest of my son.
If you feel these infractions are not cause for Court intervention then I pity any children you may have raised.

Good Day Sir.

Last edited by OrangeK; 08/09/18 06:02 PM.

M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4
All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18
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2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD
2 Major breakups.
2 Rebounds