Quote: If they really and truly ARE eligible, then you will both find a way to move past the past and work on something better for the future.
This is wonderful advice and I think we should all take it to heart!
Quote: I suspect that the only way he can push ahead with his D plans is to pretend I am no longer on the planet. Otherwise he will have to deal with the feelings, and that's a pattern with him... avoiding the feelings.
Are you sure we aren't married to the same guy??! LOL!
I see the same thing in my sitch...he allows himself to get only SO close, then he runs like HE**........like Superman running from Kryptonite!!!!!!
Gee, I think I'd rather be Lois Lane.........LOL!
Happiness is like a butterfly: the more you chase it, the more it will elude you, but if you turn your attention to other things, it will come and sit softly on your shoulder.... (thoreau)
