Agreed. I don't want to put myself in an uncomfortable situation, and with BD just 4 months back it is still raw. During the 2 months before my trip but after BD I actually saw OM a good bit as he worked on my bike and came out to a number of social functions (obviously not with W).
My plan is to search for jobs so that I can leave the city (if I get a good offer) by next summer. D can't happen until April, but I imagine that will be relatively easy and uncomplicated. Getting a clean start in a new city as a single man sounds more appealing to me than trying to rebuild here.
W 34 Me 42 Married 7 years together 8 0 kids 1 beloved dog BD 4/6/2018 I moved out 4/7/2018 I moved back in alone 8/05/2018 I file 3/06/2019 D official 5/7/2019
