Arsh,

The plan was for me to move BACK into the home August 5th. At BD I moved out because I felt the situation was toxic for me and I needed distance. It wasn't feasible for W to move out because she worked from home. Thus, the arrangement whereby I moved out and stayed out for 2 months until the summer, then I traveled for 2 months, and then I was to come back to the house. That gave W plenty of time to find her own place and make arrangements, and she could do all that, and the packing and the like, without me being around to suffer through it.

So, as of 4 days ago I am back in the house.

Yeah, my plan is to keep interactions to a minimum. We need to coordinate about the dog and a little bit of financial stuff, but that is it, and that can be done over email.

Thanks for chiming in! I know how busy you are and how tough your situation is. I have been following it closely and I wish you all the best as well.


W 34 Me 42
Married 7 years together 8
0 kids 1 beloved dog
BD 4/6/2018
I moved out 4/7/2018
I moved back in alone 8/05/2018
I file 3/06/2019
D official 5/7/2019