In what kind of a 3rd world country do you live if pulling hair or "spanking" (what ever that means in this concept - playful? Like pat on the back?) is not forbidden by law? In my country, if someone witnessed you doing physical harm to your kid... that's a fine and an automatic social service case. Gladly so. Violence is the worst parenting one can fall into.

Last edited by lcause; 08/09/18 04:00 PM.

In my thirties, BDd 2017, divorced
2 young kids
new relationship