I would strongly suggest that you don't do it if you are trying to get back at her. I know this might be a sensitive subject but your posts come across as very angry, frustrated, and I get the feeling you are trying to do anything to get back at your W for what she has done.
If that is not the case then you have my apologies.
Jospeh, you have every right to think that may be the case. However, my only concern is for S3 in this regard. As i said earlier, i know OM has been around for over a year. S3 knew his name and would speak of him before i even found out about affair. So being around OM isnt an issue for me. The CO Sleeping thing pisses me off, but isnt illegal.
However if you had seen the look of fear and pain on S3's face on Monday when he pantomimed what had been done to him you would be considering calling CPS too i think.
This is not for revenge, or out of anger, or frustration. I am simply concerned for the safety and mental wellbeing of S3. The last thing i wana do is cause him to be pulled from his mother, but id she is abusing him, it needs to happen..... man this sux.
M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4 All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18 ----------------------------------------------------- 2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD 2 Major breakups. 2 Rebounds