Quote: Friendly I am fine with when the occasions arise. But "friendship" is something different altogether as discussed earlier on this thread ... Mooka, I think your assessment was not far off the mark, as OW has been very pushy about him needing a divorce ...
Maybe I'm feeling a bit cynical due to the recent developments in my sitch, but ... with OW being the major influence in H's life right now, I can't see a friendship that would be any deeper than superficial on your H's part at this time ... or perhaps in time he may try to build on based on nostalgia. Not unless things fall apart with OW will there be a chance at a real friendship. So the question becomes, are you willing to leave the door open if it comes about?
I think the way events unfolded around your website is very telling. It was an oppurtunity to demonstrate what type of friend he wanted to mean to you and I think you sent a pretty clear message back on how you felt about it. Simply, if he is not willing to reciprocate in a friendship, you will accept that and move on. So the ball is now in his court sorta speak. BTW, I applaud the your approach.
