I am reading the DR book once again. I know my W is discussing our sitch with a friend and possibly an OM. Of course the OM has is eyes set on her cant wait for her to leave me. I am plan B. I have not mentioned a thing about my suspecting her relationship with OM is more than friendship for over a year. She does not know that I get full descriptions of her outgoing calls on our Phone bill. I see the amount of calls and the length of calls. I keep this information to myself. Again, I know I cannot demand she end it If there is a faint hope that she wants to try to rebuild the marriage I will then say we can only rebuild if all contact with OM is terminated. If she is willing to do that we have a chance If not, I will ask her to leave.
Don't count the days, make the days count. Mohammad Ali
