I am just so not the grumpy old ogre... can't even get a visual on that one.
I think you helped me answer some of my questions. Thank you!
well, if your laughing, then I don't see how it is possible that you are a grumpy old ogre!!!!
Let me ask you a question. Why would you purposely put yourself in an "unfriendly" sitch right now?
The secret to my PMA right now is just that. I am not putting myself in those positions. If I am feeling less than happy, I am dang sure to not talk to the W at that moment. She seems to be mirroring me lately anyway, and Lord knows I don't want to see grumpy W.
Establishing ground rules (or boundaries as some call it here), can be advantageous, but it depends on the sitch. But you can say the same if you want to keep the whole thing wide open.
It seemed to me, Wonder, that things are great with you and that one little period where you weren't feeling all that happy kind of bothered you and threw you for a loop. Maybe thats a little drastic and extreme, but it did make you show a side to your H that you and him haven't seen in a while.
Is it possible to combine the two approaches here? I don't know really.
I am so glad that I made you laugh, I seem to have that knack lately. Your welcome!
Triple J
Things were different then. All is different now. I tried to explain, somehow..........
Eddie Vedder (Pearl Jam)
