D.....I was in limbo for 8 months and I have no regrets. My Xw ended up filing and I used that time to work on myself. Like G said it is your choice but if your not then I strongly suggest that emotionally you begin to move on as if the D has happened. If you don’t you will be miserable

Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018