I don't have anything profound to add to all this great advice and insight you are getting from Azure, SS, Triple, and others....
Just want tyou to know you seem soooo strong, confident, and on the track that is taking you in a forward direction. The letter idea seems to make a lot os sense. Share more thoughts about what you might say...
You have come such a long way...continue to take wonderful care of yourself, I believe you have so much to offer....the right man will one day fully appreciate who you are and what you are all about. Sounds like your H has those thoughts, too, from time to time.
I would guess that OW is filling him with info/ideas on how to handle you and the sitch. Let her blow it a few times...keep your distance from talking about her...she will mess up in time, I'm sure.
Hang in there....you are doing so well. And, thanks for all your cheerleading in my sitch....I truly appreciate your words of wisdom. LOL Mooka
