Question. How do I teach my kids what my wife has done is wrong without it damaging there opinion of her. Acting like everything W has done is okay.surely will alter their moral compass?
From my experience you don't have to do anything. Your kids will process what has occurred as they grow and mature and look back. I've known lots of kids from broken homes, where one parent cheated on the other, and almost universally the kids eventually grow up to have a pretty severe opinion of cheaters. In fact, most of them I know won't even tolerate their friends cheating on their spouses! So I don't think you do anything above being a shining tower of an example of morality for your children, and they will know what their mom did was wrong, hurtful, and caused their family to be torn apart. You won't have to say anything about it.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
